Practical Magic: Autumn Equinox
How to dress like your Venus sign and a Money Bowl Spell!
Alright cuties, September is here. A time where we slowly start to say goodbye to summer and begin to welcome the brisk kiss of Fall. Except that global warming is real, and it is going to be 110 degrees where I am today.
Never the less, as a forever East Coast girlie, the seasons they are changing, and no heatwave will make my brain forget that pumpkin bread is but a Trader Joe’s trip away.
Please enjoy the witchy breakdown!
Tarot Card of the Month: 10 of Wands
In this section I pull a tarot card on behalf of the collective that represents the energy for the month ahead. For September we have the 10 of Wands reversed.
The 10 of Swords is a card of bearing much responsibility and not knowing how to delegate and or say no. It is a card of the over-achiever who believes they have to put the world on their back… only to break their back and burn out. This September calls for reprioritizing our list of needs and wants. It calls for sharing the responsibilities as a community, and knowing that it is both okay to ask for help and to gently put down what we can no longer carry.
In a Tarot for Change, Therapist Jessica Dore, says the following of this card:
A lot of us have grown up in environments where limits are not well understood, acknowledged or respected.
I like to think about boundaries as limits, since a limit is something every person has, while a boundary can feel like something reserved for only ‘whole’ people, ‘healthy’ people, people who really ‘have their lives together’. Whether you choose to enforce them or not, you absolutely have limits, lines that should not be crossed. Conditions that are too much or not enough, those that will support your growth or betray it.
The person in the ten of wands pushes a heap of wands forward, with their head down and face buried. A burrowed, hidden face implies a person who has not yet completed the psychological task of distinguishing themselves from others. Unable to separate their own wants and needs from the wants and needs of others, they can’t tell what is their work and what’s not. They take on too much and disregard their limits.
People who consistently overextend themselves tend to oscillate between feeling resentful for saying yes and feeling guilty for saying no. This is partly because of how misguided guilt so often is in the first place, it tends to be rooted in conditioning that you’re responsible for other people’s feelings, which you aren’t.
So this month (and truly any month), what is yours to work through and see through to the end? What is theirs? What do you want to say yes and no to?
May we go inward and speak authentically.
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Lunar Lore
It’s Virgo season! We just had a new moon in Virgo, which sets the tone for the things you want to do in your Virgo house for the next 6 months, when there will be a corresponding full moon on March 14, 2025. I hope you are taking advantage and hone in on the minutia of your goals.
We also have Mars in Cancer until November 3rd (and then back but retrograde from 12/6-2/23 of 2025). Mars is uncomfortable in cancer. Mars is direct, a straight shooter, no time to waste. Cancer is the momma bear, the family, if you piss it off it retrieves. So we can find ourselves in exchanges that feel passive aggressive, or moody for no reason. Be tactful!
On to something more fun :)
In honor of all of the Fashion Week’s that happen in September (NYFW, London, Paris etc), I want to talk to you about using your Venus sign for style inspiration!
Venus is known as the planet of love, beauty, and aesthetics in astrology. It governs our sense of harmony, attraction, and the way we relate to others in romantic and social contexts. Venus rules over lives pleasures! Including art, fashion and music.
I myself am a Gemini Venus and love being a chameleon with my style. I think it blends well with my Leo rising (bold) and Taurus sun (lux and comfy). This is merely a suggestion (and for fun), if this doesn’t resonate with you, no stress. Choose one, choose all!
Venus Signs and Style Guidance
Venus in Aries:
Style Descriptor: Bold and energetic. Embrace vibrant colors, edgy cuts, and statement pieces. Your style is dynamic and confident, with a flair for outfits that stand out.
Celeb inspo: Rihanna
Venus in Taurus:
Style Descriptor: Luxurious and grounded. Opt for high-quality fabrics, soft tones, and classic, timeless pieces. Your style reflects a love for comfort and elegance, with an emphasis on sensuous textures and reliable staples.
Celeb inspo: Victoria Beckham & Jessica Alba
Venus in Gemini:
Style Descriptor: Playful and versatile. Experiment with eclectic patterns, bright colors, and mix-and-match styles. Your fashion sense is ever-changing, reflecting your curiosity and adaptability.
Celeb inspo: Bella Hadid and Dua Lipa
Venus in Cancer:
Style Descriptor: Delicate and feminine. Choose soft fabrics, and vintage-inspired pieces. Your style exudes warmth with a focus on elegance.
Celeb inspo: Zendaya (not red carpets, her personal everyday style)
Venus in Leo:
Style Descriptor: Dramatic and glamorous. Go for bold colors, luxurious fabrics, and attention-grabbing accessories. Your style is all about making a statement and embracing your inner royalty with confidence and flair.
Celeb inspo: Tracee Ellis Ross
Venus in Virgo:
Style Descriptor: Elegant and understated. Favor clean lines, neutral colors, and meticulously crafted pieces. Your fashion choices reflect a refined taste and attention to detail, with an emphasis on practicality and sophistication.
Celeb inspo: Meghan Markle
Venus in Libra:
Style Descriptor: Harmonious and chic. Opt for balanced, symmetrical designs, and classic, fashionable pieces. Your style is all about elegance, with a knack for blending trends in a way that feels effortlessly stylish.
Celeb inspo: Hailey Bieber
Venus in Scorpio:
Style Descriptor: Alluring and mysterious. Embrace deep, rich colors, and figure-flattering designs. Your fashion sense is bold and magnetic, with a preference for pieces that evoke passion and intrigue.
Celeb inspo: Tessa Thompson
Venus in Sagittarius:
Style Descriptor: Adventurous and eclectic. Incorporate vibrant prints, bohemian styles, and a free-spirited approach to fashion.
Celeb inspo: Erykah Badu and Adwoa Aboah
Venus in Capricorn:
Style Descriptor: Sophisticated and classic. Choose structured, tailored pieces, and classic color palettes. Your style is polished and professional, with a focus on timeless elegance and high-quality craftsmanship.
Celeb inspo: Lori Harvey & Eva Longoria
Venus in Aquarius:
Style Descriptor: Experimental and unconventional. Your fashion sense is forward-thinking and original, embracing individuality and creativity.
Celeb inspo: Doja Cat
Venus in Pisces:
Style Descriptor: Dreamy and romantic. Opt for flowing fabrics and whimsical, romantic designs. Your style is imaginative and fluid, with a touch of fantasy and a love for delicate, artistic details.
Celeb inspo: Solange
Let met know which style resonates most with you and why :)
Spellbound: Money Bowl
This corner of Practical Magic is dedicated to spells that you can tap into on your own (without it feeling scary). We cast spells all the time without knowing, just think of the wish you make over your birthday candle and the affirmation sticky notes you leave on the mirror.
I’ve been on a personal journey to change my relationship with money from saving for a rainy day (aka survival) to knowing that money wants to work for me so that I can continue to thrive. About two months ago I came across a money bowl spell and decided to try it out for myself. I have not received a $50M inheritance (YET), but! I have received new tarot/astrology clients and an abundance of resources from my network. It’s also been a wonderful ritual to light an accompanying candle and envision the type of freedom money brings into my life.
Items you will need
A container of your choice: wood, copper, glass, crystal, ceramic.
Bay Leaves and Cinnamon.
Crystals: Citrine, Pyrite, Green Aventurine, or Tiger's Eye.
Money & coins (I added both, including foreign $$)
Salt, rice or sand to line the bottom of your dish (I used uncooked rice).
Next Steps
Cleanse the bowl (incense or sage). Fill the bottom with your choice of base as shared above. Write your wishes for abundance on the bay leaves, you can also include dollar amounts. Put the bay leaves and the cinnamon in the bowl. Then add the money/coins/jewels, as well as the crystals. Lastly, place the bowl in the living room or by the entrance of your home as those are the most prosperous places (per feng shui). The bowl should be visible at all times. You can add to it as you’d like.
